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Dreams, Ambitions and Life

My first career choice was "Doctor".. as I grew older it started to evolve. Grandma says I once said Police woman (I really don't know what that was about because ilya uniform hmmm), in about Grade 6 it was "Sister-Professor" (you're probably wondering what career is LOL I wanted to be a Nun and Professor at the same time! 
I got into high school and I settled for Law, I wanted to be a lawyer and my mother was rooting for me.. she even used to call me "State counsel", on the other side of the camp my grandparents thought because I talk a lot my best bet was KU BROADCASTING (Journalism). Fast forward to post high school, I did go to Journalism school, gosh I hated it. Don't get me wrong, there's nothing wrong with it, I actually admire journalists. They are confident, well put together and read really well (this kinda describes me) lol but yeah neh, it wasn't for me. So I looked for something I thought fit and that's how I got into PR... 
I had never thought of PR ever but the more I dive in, it's soooo me. From the corporate communications side to event planning. 
I have moments where I sit and imagine how life would have been had I gone to Law school, nga kwali fye "your honour nalamuma uyu" 😂😂. So I think I'm okay where I am... 
Last weekend, I had the opportunity to MC my first ever gig.. I never knew what to do and in true Nicoletta fashion, I never planned I just decided to wing it.. for someone who is into event planning, I suck at it. I just dive in (with order and structure of course). This gig opened my eyes and mind wider to where I want to go in my career life, which of my dreams align but not neglecting that in all this life is bound to happen.. 
Dreams and ambitions are yours to love, to pursue, to run with. Life is kinda sorta yours but it's also unpredictable.. the perfect example I have and many other girls share is the typical "I'd have graduated, gotten a good job, car and been married by 25 (let's laugh together 😂😂😂).. I'm turning 27, I do have a decent job, still trying to save up for a car, graduating next year, marriage looks real not so good at the moment 😂💀, a boyfriend maybe but a husband?? Yoh that's too farfetched apa.. 
All I'm saying is, we often plan, do up our vision boards, try to put in our all into our dreams and ambitions and most times we go in full swing, manifesting, praying and all that jazz. But no-one or anything will ever prepare you for life's blows. 
But when they come, embrace the season, realign, rebuild and go again!! 

Thank you for reading ❤️

Lots of love 💕

Thee Talkative Aries ♈

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